Cocky Funny Concept: Does It Make Any Sense?
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Hello Dave,
I am 18 years old and just graduated high school.
I used to be a MAJOR wuss and when I was younger I was always a shy kid who was picked on a lot because I was a short, skinny kid that never stood up for myself. And worst of all, I never took advantage of high school to get girls!
I started getting your newsletter earlier this year and the cocky + funny attitude changed my life in more ways than one.
I hang out with guys that get the hottest high school girls you can ever imagine. Not only do they get 9's and 10's, I see these girls obsess over them.
I was around them so much that I tried to model their behavior around girls and I noticed that EVERYTHING you preach about, comes to them NATURALLY.
Every tip of advice you've given to guys ACTUALLY works, and I've seen it first hand.
I started using cocky + funny myself and even use lines that I've seen my friends use in past cases.
I saw a HOT girl in the mall and she was checking herself out in a
pocket mirror so I said "don't worry, your hair doesn't look THATTT
bad". She started laughing even though I just made fun of her! I asked
for her email and when she said she doesn't have the internet, I used
your line "well do you have electricity"? AGAIN the girl laughed, and I
ended up getting her phone # and I hooked up with her that weekend!
MY QUESTION
My natural personality has transformed from a wussy shy nice kid to a guy that's gonna bust your balls, but a nice guy at heart.
I made a lot more girl "friends" too, but whenever they try to tell me their sad stories, I let them know I'm not their boyfriend and do not care.
Whenever I gain the courage to use cocky+funny, it WORKS but my problem is even though I've seen this work in action, I fear I don't know enough cocky+funny lines to keep up a conversation with a girl.
Also, do you recommend hitting on random strangers you see, because my friends say they never really hit on strangers unless they have a reason to go up and talk to them.
My friends also say to ALWAYS have 5 "project girls" and never focus
on one girl. Is this true? please write back.
E from NYC
Reply:
It's interesting, because I actually discovered the Cocky & Funny technique by watching guys who were good with women.
In fact, a guy who is now a good friend was trying to explain the concept to me a few years back... and he was the first one to say "Cocky & Funny."
Of course, I had no idea what he was talking about at the time. It really made no sense to me.
But after I started working with it and watching other guys who were really successful with women, I learned how it worked.
It sounds like you're really getting it -
congrats!
As for your questions...
Don't worry about being able to "come up with enough lines to keep up a conversation." Just do what you can, and enjoy yourself. A few Cocky & Funny lines used here and there are MUCH better than nothing at all.
If you feel like approaching strangers, great.
If you just realize that most women are going to be nice, but some will be either unavailable or unfriendly then you'll be fine.
I have personally had great success meeting "strangers," and as my good friend Rick says, "Every friend you have started out as a stranger...."
And as for the "5 project girls", you're cracking me up over here. If you like the idea of staying single and dating a lot of different women, then this is the way to do it!
Just make sure they don't turn into your personal "psychological projects".
I want you to remember, being Cocky and Funny is like turning on the (light) switch to being an attractive and attention getting personality. When you turn that off, you become less of what people expect from you. Now, I'm not saying using C+F all the time is the right thing to do but you do need to make split second decisions all the time for when to turn it on and for how long.
Personalities are parts of a persons persona, the vibe that they give off, so when you're with a girl that you use C+F on, keep it on, or you'll confuse the lady and she'll think that you really were just putting her on and you become less interesting and less attractive immediately.
To follow this subject further read more here online, right now.
For the complete bigger picture, read and watch the DVD program "Cocky and Funny" here.